I agree on the social media and have turned that channel off so I can focus. Knowing she is with the OM right now still makes me sick and that I actually hope she stays with him and doesn't come back :-) It would be a relief but won't happen for a while as its a plane ride away or super long drive
I have a few days away so hopefully I can recharge the batteries and not care about her for at least this upcoming week.
I am a person of trust & honesty and that has been broken even in the divorce and won't be a fun ride sharing time with our daughter knowing what I know.
Not sure how some folks who pull this sleep at night .
_________________________ Me-48 Spouse-WAW 52 Married for 10 years D7 ILYBNILWY 7/15 Suspect EA/PA 12/15 No confirmation/denial She files 1/2016 Working towards the Big D ...still in progress....