Hey Cali, nice to see you drop by. I don't hit the boards often, but did today and saw this post.
Glad to hear you are doing well. Figured you would be
One thing you might expect is that she won't make eye contact with you for a while. Either out of anger or shame? Who knows or really, what does it matter. But it seems similar to me. My ex couldn't wait to get out of the room if we were in the same room. And when she was, she'd look at her toes as she rushed out. That only happened with the kids or passing on the street, so I can only report what I've seen. Just a note to let you know it's not abnormal in this situation. If it's like my experience (and there are many similarities) then I suspect the anger/nicety/WTF moments will continue in the brief encounters you'll have because of your son. Don't be surprised.
China? I'm jealous if you get to go - enjoy the new adventures!
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
