Stop!

Just stop reading into her, don't try and interpret anything. Just like in every other thread the 1 commonality whether you have a WAW/WAS if your a left LBS or if you're dealing with an A, stop letting the other person dictate what you do or how you feel.
I know it's easier said than done and we are all going to make mistakes but the sooner you realize it's now about you there better. You keep saying to her you're just trying to work on me now. Stop saying that just do it.
It's so hard when there is so much emotion and confusion and hope and desperation involved but you've got to figure out a way to disengage and focus on you or your children if there are any involved. Everything else needs to be put aside
It's goes against everything our body and mind want to do but it's what needs to be done, plain and simple