A few months ago S11 was having some health issues. W brought him in, got meds, and was super nice to my mom that day, super nice, reasonable, talked about me, though mostly not so good things. Said she hoped we could be civil some day for the kids sake. Since then she went back to being silent. S11 had a bruise, was bothering him for a few days, so W brought him to dr. today. Afterward W called my mom, was all polite again, after not talking for months.
W said she didn't understand the custody schedule, hoped I could explain it to her, through my mom, write it all out on a calander. I thought about it for a while, and decided no, it's not that complicated, it's it my job any longer. What is my job is protecting myself, so I had my mom text her instead about her excess spending and the 20k in legal fees because of her OFP. Apparently W was so upset she couldn't talk to my mom, so had her mom call my mom. They went back and forth, the crazy stuff they claim I am spending money on, totally ridiculous, I'm not buying food or clothes or anything, just spending enough to pay for gas, and we're bouncing checks. Oh I can't wait to get her off my checking account and let her sink her own ship!! They also talked about her paranoia of me following W, so hopefully she gets off of that horse now!
I don't know. I don't get it. I guess I never will.