I'd like to hear some thoughts about telling family members from his side about the affair. My purpose is not to get members from his family on my side, instead it is to hopefully get him some help and have them talk some sense into him.. In the end, it may not do anything, but as Michele says, if I am going to accept the divorce, I want to make sure I don't leave any stone unturned. I just think it's odd that he has not told any of his family of his decision, and if he has told anyone, he just says it's because we don't get along, and that is not the case, AT ALL. We get along just fine, yes our fights may have been unhealthy, but, on a day to day basis, we got along just fine. We made SO much progress through therapy, I just want someone to make him see that divorce is not the solution to our problems. I know at the end of the day, he's the only one that can realize this, and no one can stop him from doing this, or force him to stay. I'm just trying everything. Despite all that he's done to hurt me, I do not want to lose him..
