Happily W stayed local and is just out with friends, I assume? Having 100 miles between her and the OM is helpful. I can't see them making it work indefinitely but I do see W trying to keep the affair and stability of the marriage intact. She unleashed a comment or two in monster mode and I just gave an answer and walked away. She left soon after.
M49 W48 Married 25 years S14 & S16 in house. S21 & S23 together in apt.
BD#1 11/09 EA & PA, Separated 2/10, Reconciled 9/10 BD#2 4/16 EA & PA, Separated 4/16