Thanks again V. It's kind of too late at this point, as of yesterday actually. The D papers are all signed. I have a decent amount of time with the kids, not great though. Summer will be 6 out of 14 days, school year 5 out of 14.
The things she does with the kids are not necessarily endangering, but not real smart. Hanging around people who drink a lot is not against the law, unfortunately. If they get caught drinking and driving with the kids, that would be bad, but I "think" she knows better than that... Or at least I hope, she would never have done that when we were together, but who knows now if that was her values or mine. In between she does some good things too, in fact I wonder if she is after the "favorite parent" award. I'm not playing into it, I just do things with my kids just like I always have, let them see things for the way they really are.
I have discussed this many times with my atty. She said that if I brought it to court with what is out there for evidence at this point, I will likely end up with less custody, not more. The fact that the OFP exists is the primary thing against me... Even though in it's current form it has nothing to do with the kids, it's still a major point against me.
