My wife has 2 playlists on my spotify (we share the account) that have the most depressing breakup and divorce songs. If you want to get an idea how bad it is, google babyface's love marriage and divorce. There is a song on there where Toni Braxton wishes nothing but pain on the ex
Next Post My W has basically walked all over me since here " i don't love you anymore BD almost a year ago" She goes out any/anytime she wants and does not say where she is going. She has said she would rather go to Hell than stay in this marriage (we are Christian). She made a revenge list of things she will do to hurt me (take away access to youngest daughter, sleep with other men, leave me in financial ruin) that she keeps with her phone at all times. She even takes the list with her when we go to church. I bought her tix to see her favorite singer in concert for Christmas and she took someone else to punish me. On Valentine's Day she received a portable cooler from a man but she would not say who bought her the gift. She did not get me anything for Valentines Day. My wife is punishing me for the lies I have told in the past (problems with hiding money and lying when caught has been an issue) She said she forgives me but I see no evidence of that. I have sought counseling for my issues and am continuing to work on that. I pay all the bills, (she does not work) come home and do the chores and get dinner going (with help from my oldest daughter). I want to kick her out but I have not seen anyone on the boards who has done so. Please advise if you have taken this course of action and what have been the results.
I am especially hoping Sandi2 replies.
Last edited by Cadet; 05/20/1602:11 PM.
M-41 W-46 T- 17 years M- 13 yrs SS - 25 SD- 22 D 11 ILYBNILWY - 6/6/15 Status - DBing, GAL