Ok, so now do the work. You heard her vent. You wrote her words down. Journal her words and your feelings about them. Use them to work on you. Don't talk to her about it right now. It's raw and bleeding and she can't understand anything beyond her hurt. Stand your ground about the living arrangement.she has a journey of self discovery and healing to take...let her.
You also need to make one.Leave her to herself. Focus on YOU. This will take time. That's why there are so many resources on here. People post what they learn and share it. Read the homework Cadet provides. But above all, remember you love her. Somehow she has felt hurt enough that she wants out. Respect her feelings enough that you will try to understand the part you played. But do it alone for now. You both need space from each other to heal. That's OK. And that's why you reinforce her decision to leave while you stand by your decision to stay. It's part of your growth to stay and hers to find out how to make it on her own.
M-51 H-54 2D-27 and 25 M-26 yrs Bombshell and IHS 7-29-15 He moved out 10-3-15 D filed 1-27-16 D final 10-27-16
