Originally Posted By: CRW
Well, she has been hounding me to 'sign papers' for the past few days now. She hasn't actually presented me with any papers, she wants me to have my lawyer draw them up, which I am in the process of doing. I'm just not sure if I should take that step or force her to.

Thoughts?

So I'm confused. It looks like your W filed back in Dec 15. And you both have lawyers. So exactly what stage is your divorce in? You don't just go to a lawyer, tell them to draw up some papers, and here sign this, boom, you're divorced.

You have young kids, do you have an agreed upon Parenting Agreement in writing. Then you have to agree on Financials.

And since you're here, you really don't want to be divorced, so why would you have YOUR lawyer draw up anything and bill YOU the hours? She wants a divorce, she does ALL the work. Your lawyer just reviews what you send to make sure it's what you want.

Just trying to understand.


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