DDJ, glad to hear seeming tragedy has evaporated and your are on a positive swing now.
Please be very cautious on this trip, don't let everyone's emotions be a recipe for disaster. Keep detached from her, but make sure S4 always sees you as being respectful to her.
Stay away from booze even if you see WW overindulging. Focus on S4 and make it a memorable time for him to remember with Daddy and Gradma. If mommy joins in all the better.
You and your family are in my prayers.
Me37 W33 T:8 M:5 D3 BD 11/2015 EA+PA w boss 12/2015 S 3/2016
Im stronger because I had to be Im smarter because of my mistakes happier because of the sadness Ive known and now wiser because I learned