That's right, the desire for retribution is what is holding me back right now. That and the material loss I will suffer in the D, and the sadness that S11 is enduring.
Other than that I would be able to detach properly.


Me-LBH, 48
Spouse-WW, 48
Married for 19 years
Son, 12
BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding)
BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA)
WW filed D February 2016
WW moved out April 2016