Hi Phoebe, in one way I wish I could, but I'm working for the next several days which may be just as well to focus on.

A friend did some search this morning and showed me that she found OW's Pinterest page. There was nothing but wedding dresses. All put up about 3 months ago. This confirms to me that it was H she was calling her 'fiance' last summer and that they have plans to marry.

I called H and left a message for him to call me because I wanted to discuss rushing the D through. I said I figure he wants that and that I have found a way to do it if that's the case. I will tell him when I talk to him that I know about the wedding plans.

I am totally done and right now feel disgusted and dirty being married to him. I want out as quickly as possible. This really was a turning point for me.

I'm e-mailing L today to see what we can do - I know of an option but I need to check if it's feasible at this point.

M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17