I hear you.

I can say I have a lot of work to do at my house.

I need reasons because I don't want to just give in and go along. My heart wants to thinking it will get me closer to W. My mind say no because that is DBing and that will get me closer to a new MR and commitment.

Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016