Hey,

Why does this have to be so tough?

So W Messaged back if I would have the kids all ready dressed and fed for 6:30 in the morning before I bring them to her house.

I have not replied but at that time I would have to drag them out of bed an house earlier for that to happen. And for the one day she works late. Of course I can do it, but is it best for the kids?

Then she messages me about how she will be gong to her house tonight to clean and if I want I could bring the kids to see her house.

Then she messages me about at her new place there will be fireworks on there street. She invites me to that.

First thing I think is how is she going to introduce me? It breaks my heart because she invites me but based on the S agreement we are not together. DO I GO?


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016