doodler: You hit the nail on the head. I want my real wife. I'm OK with the changes she has made in her life (it's taken me a while, but now I'm better with it), it was the bad behavior that really wore me out.
Many of the changes, GAL, 180, I've done for me have worn off. The last couple of weeks she has firmed up her plans to move out. I've been in hot pursuit - acting like a teenager with his first crush.
Maybe her moving out will instigate the feeling of loss that Sandi2 and Cadet say are the key to her realizing the cost of her actions. That with the many changes I have been making may just be the right formula.
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M:50 W:53 MR:20 D:21 S:17 S:11 BD-Sept 2015 Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015 Actually EA In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016 W moved out:May 22 2016 OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017