Unless she has recordings or witnesses this is he says, she says.
Please get legal advice and fight. Get some decent evidence in your pocket. Conversations with your children, diary entries, emails and texts. In this type of sitch it is usually those with the best evidence that has the best legal journey.
If you can record some stuff, frankly I have seen this before. It's a minority tactic and called 'triangulation' in this case using the legal system as the third party.
These children need protection from the out of control WW.
Men are often afraid to fight for their children, you must do so and I guarantee your R with your children is vital to you as your children are yours for life.
Keep your buttons out of pressing reach, stay calm, breathe. You can. Always have another adult present when dealing with difficult issues with WW.
When in doubt say naught.
Yes do not be fooled, please read Mustardseed thread, or Ancaire,
Schermann managed to fight for his kids, as did Joe whose spouse was a sex worker.
It's easy to be discouraged when the law is involved.
I will keep checking in, giving you some fighting spirit.
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW