Hi Anjo. I'm grateful for your advice and it's very similar to ICs IC is also a M councellur and said that I need to give it time and recognise the WW is lost
The calls have been about the kids this week with a bit of nothing thrown in
IC also wants me to love my life for myself and the kids but not to shut the door fully
The NC ( less contact ) is better for me and I think both you and Lady V are right in your own ways. I'm choosing to move on because of fear and I recognise that Maybe I will regret it one day , only time will tell.
Again , I'm very grateful for your input and your have always been a great friend to me
Lady V , as you know since WW left I have left her to herself but always been available when she needed to talk. I have now cut this back and I do feel better for it. My belief is WW is lost and after almost two years she looks like that's her new default position Thanks for the advice
