Well crap. My D came home from work all mad. OW (if you call a 25yr old a woman) asked another coworker if my D was mad at her because she doesn't want that. They wanted to know why. OW said because of R with H. They told her H is married, OW said no , H has been divorced for a month. Uhm no, he only moved out of th house 3 1/2 weeks ago. No papers or nothing has been talked about. H still wearing wedding ring. Is she stupid or naive??? But that tells me that H is lying to her. But why????

D confronted H in private about "looking his girlfriend on a leash". H said its none of your concern. She said yes it is when coworkers start talking OT asking me about it! H didn't say anything. Just scoffed at D and walked away from her. I'm so pissed off at him right now. It's one thing to be doing this but Letti g it affect D relationship that is fighting words!!

I live this man when he is sober/sane. How do I handle this?


wife of an addict
M 39 H 39
D18 D 16
Together 19 M17