The best thing I ever did after the Bomb was to change my cell phone provider to another company and change the account in her name.
Not to distance myself, but it removed all possibilities of checking her phone calls, texts ect. It's such a HUGE temptation.... but once its removed...you don't think about it anymore. And thats a giant weight...
W never had FB, so this was the way I snooped. Be strong, GAL, improve yourself.... it will turn her around.
Me: 43, W:42 M: 11 years T: 17 years Step S:22 Separated: 5/08/10 (came back 8 months later) Bomb Dropped: 04/12/14