One other thing. I forgot to tell you how to set up your signature.

Go to: My Stuff menu, then Edit Profile. Scroll to the bottom of the information options, and you will see a box on which to enter your signature information. It's a great way for people to see a quick summary of your situation.

One other thing, one I think you're already doing, since you found my thread and posted to it: read other threads and post to them. Weave yourself into the fabric of this community by reaching out to others. Choose a few threads from people who are at different stages in their relationships than you are, follow them, and offer them your support. Everyone here could use some kind words, and they will do the same for you once they get to know you.

Use your thread as a journal, too. Write here to help yourself, whether to sort out your thoughts, or to remind yourself of the progress you are making.

Hugs.

H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16