My husband recently gave me papers, and after debating for awhile whether or not I should sign, I went ahead and signed the papers and gave them back to him. Although I do not want the divorce, and internally I am still fighting hard to save my marriage, I think not signing will make the spouse that wants out even more angry and resentful. As Michele says in her book, try acting "As if.." Maybe they will come back.
Today I asked my H if he could delay turning them into the court, and he said he'd wait a week. I think that's some positivity. I am trying to act "as if.." so I am hoping that technique will work, but at the same time, I am trying not to have expectations.
