Hi Phoebe,

I really enjoyed reading some of your posts, and I love to see that you've made progress. I have been stuck lately, and I feel like I have major ups and downs. I'm pretty new to the forum, so I'm not very good with the abbreviations yet! But, my H had an EA, and I found out about it last year! I stuck around and tried desperately to save my marriage. By the end of the year, he wanted to separate again, and currently he is filing for the divorce.
I am only 29, but I feel like my life has come to a screeching halt, and I really have no idea how to start over. I love reading that you were able to pick up the pieces and find things that make you happy, despite the fact that you still struggle from time to time. I pray that God gives you the strength to continue to get through each day. If you have any advice for me, I'd love to hear it!

I am not sure how to make the signature like other people...but here's the breakdown of my marriage

H: 30 Me: 29
Married: 4 years
No Kids
Walked away: 2/27/15
Came back: 6/1/2015
Walked away (again): 11/2015
D filed: 5/2016