Sorry for your situation. First off, stop treating her like a queen. Easier said than done if you have been doing this for the whole M. I am in the exact situation, wife wants space etc. Give it to her. She will do what she wants anyway. The space is for you. If you have little ones then make sure you don't neglect their needs. A hard balancing act for sure because you will still need to communicate with her about that. Sorry to hear your going through this, remember you are not alone!
M 21 years XW 43yo, me 41 yo S13 BD March 2016 - she asked me to patient... End of June - I started the D process. D final 2/23/17 "He who forgets will be destined to remember" Eddie Vedder
