CRW, he never filed and he didn't threaten it much. He did in the beginning--it seemed more to justify his A tho. "Well I said I wanted a D." But he did nothing. There were several times I asked him what he was planning because I didn't want to live in limbo, and I got the same script as before. No actions.

He says now he wasn't sure of himself, felt terrible, and didn't want to give me false hopes. He said he didn't think I could ever truly forgive him and that I only thought I wanted him back because I was hurt. He knew in his heart he never worked on the M.

I don't know if folks that file for D early on are more likely to D, but I imagine there are lots of components that affects why one does it.

Blu

“Forgiveness liberates the soul. It removes fear. That is why it is such a powerful weapon.” – Nelson Mandela