Originally Posted By: DigIt
But with my new attitude, I see it as SHE lost ME.


Hear hear!

For me too, I was certainly no prize the last few years because of my own baggage I was dealing with, but now I feel like I've had my reckoning and am moving forward. Meanwhile WW is still spinning; still flailing externally for what will make her happy.


Me, WW - Upper 30s
BD - Apr 1 2016
EA - Apr 7 2016 (discovered; ongoing for months; did not confront right away)
Confronted wife about EA - May 17
Wife sent NC email to OM - July 11