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Bee,
1st i have not read thru your whole story, but I am so sorry you are struggling with the C. If you are not comfortable them or don't think that they are helping, then you did a great job on getting your own C. Also its great that this new C is pro-marriage. You can work on this on your own.
If H will continue with Counseling and this is the C that H will see then I would continue. I am in a similar boat. I know that my joint C is trying and isn't sure what to do. I have a DB C as well and she is amazing. It is not wrong to have separate C's.

I will keep checking in on you!