But in spite of my concern for WAW, my focus goes to d5. On our way home, she told me that she asked her mommy when she was moving back with daddy. She said that mommy said never, because I did not help them. D5, then said daddy. You have to help mommy so she will move back with you. I told d5 I would do my best and then I asked her why she was asking mommy about this. She said, daddy, it makes me sad that mommy is not with you. This hurts the heart. My baby deserves better than this. I will continue on the path towards making the best for my baby girls. I don't know what that looks like, but I will not rest in my attempts to be the best father for them and pray that I can provide all that they need.
I will pray for all the families going through challenging times this night.
Sleep well and may God bless each of you with strength, peace and comfort.
OMG .......SAdhub....my heart just sank when i read that about d5. It is my #1 fear that keeps me up at night and losing my "stuff" when I cry about my D. She exhibits all the "i want mommy" symptoms as she spends less and less time with her and I feel for you.
That your W said that is just wrong and she should stick to the never and not take shots. Its the 101 of parenting in this type of situation and hope you nail her down on this to never bring up again. Your a great dad and just keep doing what you need to for supporting them Ugh...gets me pissed off.
_________________________ Me-48 Spouse-WAW 52 Married for 10 years D7 ILYBNILWY 7/15 Suspect EA/PA 12/15 No confirmation/denial She files 1/2016 Working towards the Big D ...still in progress....