Good advice Andrew. She is gone for 5 days. She left yesterday and has had little contact since she left. This will be a good time to move my stuff into the extra bedroom and to think about how I am going make her feel the loss. She seems to be vacillating between me and the OM. This [censored], I don't want a divorce and she told me yesterday she doesn't either.
M 21 years XW 43yo, me 41 yo S13 BD March 2016 - she asked me to patient... End of June - I started the D process. D final 2/23/17 "He who forgets will be destined to remember" Eddie Vedder
