The one thing that makes it more difficult with a maiden name is when traveling, frequently you will get additional scrutiny at the airport. A friend of mine reverted to her maiden name and she always has to produce a document to show that they are really her kids, especially because they are mixed race. This is especially an issue when traveling internationally where the official's English ability may be poor.


Me-LBH, 48
Spouse-WW, 48
Married for 19 years
Son, 12
BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding)
BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA)
WW filed D February 2016
WW moved out April 2016