Depressed to WW

[rich4j]

Hi Scotch
Just caught up on your situation as I am mostly on the newcomer board but since I have come to the realization that my STBX had an EA to help her out the door and once filed for D a PA affiar, I decided to also visit this board.

You are in a tough spot in terms of to DB or protect yourself. I only say this becuz i know and went through it

I wanted to keep the faith that I could resurrect my R and get to a new place but she said she was done. I tried to DB a bit but she said divorce and I had to protect myself. I am screwed financially but thank goodness didn't listen too much to my heart and move out. That would have been the kiss of death

So while I hope you can turn things around, if you really feel it won't happen you need to figure out plan B and get a good lawyer! whatever you do, don't move out of the house!