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[rich4j]

I did talk with my counselor and she agreed that due to my daughters age, telling her the real truth about who pulled the trigger would not make any sense right now and believed the truth will come out sooner or later and as she gets older she will get it

Also she knows my STBX well and said that it would escalate into a bad situation where she would blame me for everything under the sun and could turn my D against me. I agree...

I also take my hat off to those who have been going through this because of PA's! I had my head in the sand about my situation and although she may have only started a full blown PA after filing, there was soemthing going on for a while which was definitely at least an EA, and it makes me sick now to my stomach! I could not even look her in the eye this am......