Good for you! I am so glad t hear that you are back in an easier place again, and that the roller coaster ride relented for you.

Congratulations on your first booking! You are on such a streak of activity, both socially and career-wise. Enjoy all your get-togethers tomorrow.

Go to the potluck if you think it would be good to socialize with the people, and skip it if you think it would make you feel worse. Trust your instincts.

H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16