Not much new but I'm seeing mlc spaciness in full swing. S got picked to be in the school talent show which was yesterday. W sent me a picture of a form from school 2-3 weeks ago with the times and his was in the morning. I had a big work meeting for a contract coming up and I scheduled it and meeting with people to travel around it so I could leave immediately after he was done. I left work early and went to the school it started and I never saw w come in and s wasn't on the program. I double checked the picture she sent and texted her part way through it to see what was up. She texted back telling me he was in the afternoon session, I told her the form she sent said the morning. She said she was sorry but she thought she told me about it changing times Saturday morning when she was over. I didn't argue or make anything of it but I know she didn't. I even asked her to watch the dogs and told her I had to leave at noon right after etc., frustrating but we texted a bit keeping everything friendly. We texted a little while I was traveling too and she emailed me a video. Her texts were nicer again with lol, !s, etc.
I saw it Last weekend too, when I went with them to the show, she took a long way to get there, then when bringing me home drove by the exit, not noticing until I told her, and had to turn around. She really is forgetful/spacey right now.
She texted this afternoon to ask when I'd be home. I texted back to let her know it would be soon and to thank her for watching the dogs, and again later for the video after I got home since I had to use a computer to watch it. She told me the kids had dr appts today so we texted a little about that too.
After I called them tonight she texted me again to tell me they were tired because she had to get up early to take care of a lot of things. I validated and we texted just a bit.
She's communicating with me a lot more still and it's nicer. I could also tell she hung out in the house a bit when I was gone. I think that is probably a good thing. Still keeping my expectations low but hopefully the kindness is giving her something to think about.