What Should I be doing 3

[Ralph88]

Coco.. Oh I see.. I will say this though, and it's going to be a 2x4... When my WW had at least an EA a few years ago and I caught her, I took the lead mostly with what needed to be done ect for her to end it. This is the same thing I am seeing in your situation as an outsider. I will tell you that with my WW not taking the lead and having ownership of the process, it should have told me that she really didn't want to do it, it wasn't hard for her, and here I am again a few yards later. I felt as though I coherced my W to give it up, instead of her really wanting to and me only being in the helping role. Please take this as my sitch... But aren't a lot of these the same?