Blu- Sad but true: "As the LBS, we have to accept that we cannot force them to open their eyes." I'm having a hard time detaching as H and I are at home and spend decent time together, even if going through the motions. Think I'm stuck w/ mindset that's what he wants and when I do detach it may be obvious.

Know busy but If get a chance, I have some questions I listed on the top of my fourth page. your feedback would be real helpful. Thank you.