What Should I be doing 3

[Ralph88]

No mention of the family and husband huh??! Wow.. Weird. If I had hurt my W and family with interactions with some lady, I would destroy her in my NC message. There would be no polite, it would be brutal... And I wouldn't ask anything, it would be all direction. I would tell her how disgusted I was with her and myself, and that would be it. Guess I'm just a serious person, that would feel that sort of message would be less difficult to understand.