Hi 2x2Many - sorry to hear about your MIL. I will have her in my thoughts and prayers.

As for you, glad you went with the best possible care, for health and cosmetic reasons. There is something to be said for peace of mind.

And that's very nice your h gave you the vote of confidence over your BIL. I just caught up on your thread and given how divisive BIL has been, it's best you keep both eyes on him.

Thinking of you as you await those results.

Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced