I'm sorry you are here. It's never easy when one spouse wants out and the other spouse is trying to save the marriage/relationship.
The hurtful things that he has said to you are his way of justifying why he has left. What are you doing in the way of GALing?
I'm going to bump up your other thread so that others can refresh their memories of your situation. Since you are new and aren't aware of the 100 posting/reply limit for threads. Please stick to one thread at a time until you've reached the 100th posting/reply on that respective thread. The reason for this is so that we can follow you and your progress as well as this assists you in following your progress too. Also, when you have more than one thread going at a time, posters are not always sure which thread to post to.
Also, you can change your subject line within a thread.
Cadet may come along and merge your two threads together.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
