First post. I have always been very attentive to my W and I decided to pull a 180 to get her attention. I went out with my friend to a concert but did not tell her.
Sorry, a little background is needed here. My W has not told me her whereabouts or plans for at least 2 months now. She is very busy with her neighborhood organizations and helping with a campaign for office. She does respond call back sometimes when I call or text. I found her in pics with another guy on fb. She swears she is not seeing anyone and if she is " I will be the first to know". She has been to his house and out dancing w him. He posted video on fb (don't you know your friend's friend's can see your activity?) We do live together but there is no touching except for sex which involves no kissing. We sleep under separate blankets in the same bed. I pay the bills and she does not cook, clean or eat at the house. She is always on the phone with friends (male or female) and does not look at me while talking. She does not let me see who she is on the phone with. She has been buying new clothes every pay day (including sexy underwear). She is planning to spend her birthday at the end of this month somewhere without me.
So back to the concert. She called me at the concert and I told her I went out and she got really upset and said that was messed up. She also asked if when she goes out could she get me as the driver for uber (I drive UBER on weekends) I said no I would have to be in her area.
The following Monday I came home from work and she interrupted what I was talking about and asked if I will sign the papers uncontested. I did not know what she was talking about. She was referring to the D papers. I became flustered and we made a date for her to leave the house. I also apologized for not telling her my whereabouts and have laid low ever since. Should I have stuck to my guns I have been a doormat for my W and need help.
M-41 W-46 T- 17 years M- 13 yrs SS - 25 SD- 22 D 11 ILYBNILWY - 6/6/15 Status - DBing, GAL
