As I try to detach I'm realizing my greatest struggle is the desire to watch the social media of OW. I don't know if I have the ability to give up access, because frankly a lot of my intel has come from there, and when H was lying this is how I knew.

Having said that I'm also at the point where sometimes I know it hurts more to see things than to not.

Any suggestions to cope with the desire to look up her online postings?

(She's veeeery young - and makes it very easy, as they post everything online)