Wife is moving out...pt. 2

[sandi2]

I have never known a woman to divorce a man and break up her family b/c he didn't do his share of the housework! Never! Complain about it? Oh, sure. But if that was a woman's only reason to break up a family, she would have to be the most shallow, self-centered, spoiled, pampered, entitled princess......ever! I mean, seriously guys..........do you buy that B.S.?

Let me tell you what I have learned to watch for when a newcomer LBH comes to the board saying his W wants out of the M. If he is not some miserable excuse for a man, and he really wants to do whatever it takes to save his M but his W refuses............I ask myself, "So, what's the problem here"? If he gives a laundry list of her complaints, and at the top of her list is him not doing enough housework........it sets bells ringing.

The W may have gripped about it (and other things) for years..........but if she is wayward......it is only her "excuse". It is not her real reason for wanting to end her M.
In fact, a wayward wife will probably fall back on her old complaints that she use to have about what all she didn't like about him. But here's the thing..........if she has become wayward, he could try to fix every one of her complaints.......but it would not fix her heart, and that is where the waywardness lies.