I guess if I consider what I'm more worried about, at first I think saving my marriage. But if I'm honest about where we currently are, it pretty clear shes going to go ahead with this, which means I should focus on the divorce itself.
I have found out that the EA guy is on his way back to Chicago now. He's moving back here. Should be here by this weekend. Thats going to make this more complicated for sure!
Also my W had a friend call her in the early hours of Monday to tell my W her husband was killed in a car crash. She told me about it Monday before I left for work and has since been civil to me. I guess her attention is now directed elsewhere. Maybe this can be a new perspective even if this continues to go forward
M:13 years Known her for 30 years! Me: 40 W: 38 Kids: 17, 11, 7, 7 BD: 02/07/2016 Found EA: 3/22/2016 Told of 2 PA's: 4/8/16 Got Papers: 6/15/16