Need some help from the DB community! Crunch Time!

[cbtdad]

Hey Acc,
Sorry I'm just responding. Was on the golf course. I've been playing golf again and I'm realizing how much I missed it. I see now that over the last 6-8 months that I really stopped doing a lot of things for me and was really attached to wife and family. So much so that I was questioning her movements without me all the time. New friends, new job, etc
Instead of supporting her in these things I smothered her and tried to control my environment. So that I wouldn't get hurt again. I completely see this now. But anyways that's how we got here
So yes. When I brought up moving she didn't like that idea. And that's when she started crying and brought up picking a loane staying in it. MC agreed with her on this and didn't really push my wife. I have a feeling he will next session next week. He's learned her pretty well. She is very tough to get stuff out of her and she is one of the most stubborn people I have ever met.
As far as "loving"
I mean that she has been doing things for me such as cooking and waiting on me to get home to eat. She has been joking and laughing with me. Sending funny texts,etc
In the month that this has been going on I would say majority of time its been a lot better between us
Problem is, its not the stuff that is important to me. Hence not filling up my love tank
But I know this isn't an overnight thing
She even said yesterday that yes it is better and its been easier around the house with me pitching in.
I was happy last night because she showed respect
Friend that stayed over a few nights in bed was around again because she was done with school and celebrating
Anyways earlier in afternoon I had told W that I don't think that anything is going on in bedroom between W and friend. I also understand why she doesn't want to drive home. But I do think its inappropriate for her to stay in bedroom with you. We already have a confused 6 year old right now. No reason to confuse him anymore.
Well last night she stayed the night, but not in bedroom and W asked me first. So that was a better sign
I think this can work if I stay away from R talk and persuing
The thing is I don't know if I can do that
That's why I'm looking at it both ways