GAL going well. Need help with LRT and 180

[bigybiz]

Thanks for all the support. I'm meeting with a coach today to help set up some boundaries. She thinks it would be fine to come over make meals/hang out the kids on her nights - and I should not be home. I told her that ain't happening. I don't think I can/should prevent her from coming over - but I'm not going out because she wants it. Besides - how is she going to see how attractive I am.

Any ideas on boundaries would be helpful. She is gonna be ticked off - but I need to set them.