I wish he would find some other area to create conflict. My NG put it perfectly. He's trying to create a distraction. Not only a distraction to my happiness, but a distraction for himself because he isn't happy and he can't handle reality so he needs a distraction on which to focus. Sad, really. But I realize our entire marriage was like that. His whole life has been one huge distraction.
I wasn't sure if I should confront him on his intentions and get it out in the open or if I should just sit back and let him make a fool of himself, which he will undoubtedly do. My good friend tells me not to engage: that things will work themselves out.
WH
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"
