I think the typical advice would be:

Do not react and don't do or say anything. As hard as it is, simply ignore it and don't try to over-analyze why she did it or what (if anything) it means.

Once she is moved out, feel free to get it out of sight if that helps you. Whatever/Whenever you choose, make sure you're doing it because it feels like what you need and not because you're trying/hoping to get a certain reaction out of her or trying to read her mind.


Me, WW - Upper 30s
BD - Apr 1 2016
EA - Apr 7 2016 (discovered; ongoing for months; did not confront right away)
Confronted wife about EA - May 17
Wife sent NC email to OM - July 11