Almost another month now, and I have papers, but can't sign them (petitioner must sign with witness / notary before I can sign). Looks like everything will go through just fine, but just not on my preferred timeline. I did order two kayaks that should be here Friday and have my whole summer vacation booked. 7 weeks straight of travel / state parks / kayaking / biking / hiking. I am mostly camping, so hopefully will be able to sleep well. It was eye opening when I scheduled my summer trips, it was the first time I didn't have to consider my wife's schedule / preferences in 15 years. I think I could get pretty used to this single thing. Hopefully she'll get the papers signed soon, I think it will feel even better when I'm legally divorced.


M 43 W 45
M 10.5 T 15
S 26 D 17 (previous relationships)
ILYB 12/25/15 + asks for D
Confirm affair 1/10/16
W has D ready to sign, but agrees to wait for refinancing to go through (I get a house!)