Hey BetterM,

That was well put and hit home with me as the same words have come out of my W mouth. Except for the part about W telling me that I no longer do the things I used to do. She did find the house I am moving to that had a two car garage, something I had before MR. So in that way she has said it.

W did not contact me yesterday. She called when she arrived home and found I was out with the kids. She asked where we were and asked if we would be back because she was making dinner for us.

We did come back and she had already ate and had the dining room table all set up for me and the kids.

Before she came home she bought groceries.

I have my keys to my new place. My friend congratulated me but I did not see why.

So tonight I am going to be showing it to the kids again, Then when they go to bed I will be heading over there to drop some stuff of as the moving begins. I will be busy as I have to paint the boys rooms. I will make a list of stuff to do tonight.

This morning I almost started crying infront of W. Just knowing we wont be under the same roof was getting me. I held it together though.

One day at a time


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016