[quote]Yes it looks like she is dating OM, she say it not sexual and they are just hanging out and going for a drink!
As if to say it is okay to date others when you are in a marriage.
[quote] Does this mean the two of you plan to continue staying in the same house together? Have you thought more about your boundaries and what they are and how to state them? This can be turned around. It is going to take a lot of tough love on your part [\quote]
No, I've told her we can't live together in Limbo land, my boundaries will not allow it. I've told her we need to be apart, until this is resolved one way or another, my plan is to share parenting, but not be together in the house! i.e who on duty is at home and the other need to be away and we can't see each other daily! And that she need to pay half the cost of running the house!
I've told her I need to move on with my life with or without her!
She was up for 3 hours in the night down stairs and then couldn't be in the same room as me this morning as she found it upsetting!
But want to make dinner to put in the freezer encase one of us need it, and couldn't understand why I didn't want her to do my washing!
Me: 40 W: 36 T21 M17 S12 D10 D10 ILYBNILWY EA happened. PA happened. June 2016 trying to piece our M and life's back together...